One of my favorite things at the faires is trinket trading. At the Connecticut Renaissance faire, which was the last one I went to this year (several times) they had organized times for trinket trading. You gather at a specific spot in the faire, at a specific time, and then one of the fairies opens the trading. Some people don't seem to understand how trading is supposed to work and they would try to trade only for things of similar value, or they would say that this thing they had to trade could be for multiples of someone else's things. That's not how trading should work.
The basic idea of trading isn't trading at all, it's gifting. You bring little trinkets of some kind with the idea of gifting them to people. If you really like someone's outfit or they did or said something that added to your enjoyment of the faire, that is reason enough to gift someone. And also just trading in general. I collected so much random crap that I have no interest in. But I never said no to a trade, I never said no, your trade isn't worth my trade. I always said thank you (which is appropriate). I had a woman trade me the pop top off a can. I said thank you, added it to my stash and let her choose one of my trinkets. For me, trinket trading is about the connections. Sometimes you get a chat with someone who is also out enjoying the faire. Sometimes you get to see a cool costume up close. Sometimes you get to make a child super happy. All of it is fun to me.




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